Ask and it will be Given
I don’t know about you, but I find this morning’s gospel lesson from Luke to be reassuring, comforting, even.
At the beginning of the reading, Jesus had just finished praying, and was asked by one of his disciples to teach them how to pray the way John taught his disciples.
Jesus gives the disciples the foundation of the prayer we know today as the Lord’s Prayer.
But he also gives them a parable about a friend who needs bread to serve to an unexpected traveler. The friend knocks on the door, late at night, and asks to borrow 3 loaves of bread.
Jesus tells them that the one who was awakened refused at first, because of the late hour. But he tells the disciples that he will get up and get the bread for his friend, not because of the friendship, but because of the friend’s persistence.
He concludes this short lesson to the disciples with the reminder ‘Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you.’
Sometimes, we’re afraid to ask. Sometimes we don’t have the energy to search. Sometimes we are too anxious to knock. But Jesus wants the disciples, and us, to know that we can take the risk, we can take the chance, we can trust that with persistence, God will respond.
We have our Hebrew Scripture to give us an example of this sacred persistence: Abraham knew that the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah was their failure to provide hospitality, but he also knew that God is a forgiving God. He engages God in a sort of negotiation, getting God to admit at the end of the section that God would not destroy the cities if one righteous person could be found.
Our reading today ends with God saying that God would save the cities for 10 righteous people, but it goes all the way down to 1. That’s bold. That’s trusting, that’s persistent!
Jesus wants us to know that we can ask, that we can search, that we can knock on any of God’s closed doors, and that with persistence, what we seek will be found, what is closed will be open to us.
But many of us are afraid of what we will find, afraid that the answer we seek isn’t actually the one we want, that the open door will reveal things we aren’t expecting.
That’s ok. Jesus says, that’s ok. When we trust God enough to ask, or search, or knock, then we trust enough to receive the answer. Jesus wants us to have the courage of our convictions in order to persist in our asking.
Life and our life experiences may have made us shy about asking for what we need. Jesus says, don’t worry about that. Insecurity about our individual prayer lives might make us afraid to knock on God’s door. Jesus says don’t worry about that. Distance from God, or Jesus, may make us leery about boldly searching for the path God leads us to. Jesus says, don’t worry about that, persist, and God will answer, God will open doors.
If, and this is a big if, we can, through our prayers and our meditations, grow to trust God like Abraham trusted God, or even trust God like the friend who knocked in the middle of the night trusted his friend to open the door and help, we will have the boldness to persist in our quest.
I think many of us don’t ask, don’t seek, don’t knock, because we’re afraid of the answer. We want a particular thing, healing maybe, or relief from something painful in our lives, and we’re afraid that the answer will be no, or not now. Jesus seems to be implying that with trust and persistence, we’ll be able to accept God’s answer, accept what’s behind the open door, even if it’s not what we had hoped for.
But Jesus wants us to ask, wants us to search, wants us to knock. That’s why he gave us his prayer. And that’s why as faithful children of God, we’re meant to seek, we’re meant to search and knock. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.
Let us be so bold as to ask, seek, and knock. Let us persist in our prayers for peace, and forgiveness, and the end of violence in our world. Let us trust that with our persistence, God will provide. Amen.
the Path of God
Our Hebrew Scripture this morning is the first half of the 25th Psalm. In preparing for this morning’s sermon, I was immediately drawn to the last line: All the paths of the Lord are steadfast love and faithfulness, for those who keep God’s covenant and God’s decrees.
Keeping covenant. Paths of steadfast love and faithfulness. These things are intimately related to our sacrament of baptism. This Psalm, though written by an adult, seeking guidance and deliverance, could easily be a prayer for one newly baptized.
As Julia grows and matures, she will have an infinitely complex set of choices, multiple paths to adulthood. She will have Matt and Tiffany, her grandparents and her Aunts and Uncles to help guide her, along with countless teachers, mentors, and friends.
But this morning, we, along with her family, have set Julia on God’s path, a path of God’s steadfast love and faithfulness. As long as she is on this path, she is forgiven any and all transgressions.
Now, if, as a new driver she gets into a fender bender after staying out past her curfew, well that will be up to Tiffany and Matt to decide if she’s forgiven! But for us, for today, our faith tells us that the promises made on her behalf, and the promises she may be led to uphold at her confirmation, put her on the right path.
I love this concept of God’s paths. Many paths, leading to God. Paths we can learn about, paths we can explore. If the way to God is through multiple paths, then living our faith lives becomes a journey, sacred movement, leading us to our Creator God.
Like all of us, Julia will have some choices to make. But her family, and her faith family, will be there for her as resources. Our challenge will be to remain available, accessible, without being overbearing.
Many paths, one truth.
The path of mercy, the truth of love.
The path of forgiveness, the truth of love.
The path of salvation, the truth of love.
The path of humility, the truth of love.
While God’s promises, God’s covenant, are steadfast and sure, our promises can sometimes be a little wobbly.
But God knows that. God anticipates that at some point in our growing, we might waver, might become unsure, may lose our confidence in the direction the path is taking us.
Whenever we celebrate the sacrament of baptism, we can’t help but be reminded of our own sacred promises, be reminded of God’s covenant that guides our own faith journeys. That is a very good thing.
What better way to be reminded of God’s covenantal promises, and our own promises, than to celebrate with an eternally hopeful act of baptizing a new member of the Christian family.
Though many of our baptismal vows and confirmation promises are years in the past, our actual journey, our way along God’s path is fresh, and new. Each day we awaken, we arise again to that journey. We traverse the paths of mercy, forgiveness, salvation, and humility, each day, with varying degrees of success. But we all are led into the one truth: God’s love.
Even when we lose our way, even when we are so far off the path, we fear we’ll never find it again, God’s steadfast love, the one truth, is always there as a beacon, a light for our path.
For me, that is the core message of this Psalm: that God patiently guides us along God’s paths, lighting the way even when we’ve lost our way. Like a sacred GPS, we just have to check it every once in a while, to make sure we’re headed in the right direction.
And let us not forget that these paths, these paths of mercy, forgiveness, and humility, we are not only recipients of these graceful gifts from God, we are also meant to show mercy, bestow forgiveness, and practice humility while on our journey.
Seriously, I know it sounds like a cliché, but if we awaken each day resolved to walk the paths of mercy, forgiveness, salvation, and humility, and knew that if we took risks for God in doing so, that God’s steadfast love, the one truth, would be there to catch us if we fall or stray, then the world would most certainly be a better place.
But we’re human, and forgetful, and sometimes resentful and angry. We don’t awaken with God’s paths on our hearts, because our lives are complicated, and we’re anxious, and we worry.
The Psalmist was worried. That’s why they wrote this Psalm. That’s why it begins with lifting up their soul to God, and putting their trust in God.
And so can we. And so can Julia, as she matures. With so many loving guides, so many guideposts in her life, gently nudging her back to the paths God has set before her, she too, will experience God’s truth, God’s steadfast love.
Julia’s journey is just beginning. Her first few steps on God’s paths will be tentative and cautious. Maybe even with a few missteps.
The gift, the joy, the truth, is that God’s love is as near to her today, early in the journey, as it will be during the journey. It never wavers, it is never distant. That is true for each of us, too.
Doesn’t that make you feel better? Doesn’t that make you feel freer to take risks for God? Doesn’t that support your decisions and your choices so that you don’t have to worry about what God will think?
Because we already know what God thinks. God thinks we are worthy of God’s love. God’s unconditional, all encompassing, forgiving, restoring and guiding love.
The baptismal water was just plain tap water before it was blessed. But once blessed, it became a visible symbol of an invisible covenant. Well, almost invisible. Because though God knows our promises, our promises today and our promises in the past, the world will only see our actions.
But it is our actions, the visible living out of our faith lives, that the world will know what we believe.
With baptisms being few and far between for this worshiping community, let us use the gift of 3 in 3 months as a powerful reminder of what was promised at our own baptisms, and what was confirmed by us at our confirmations: that God’s steadfast love guides us always, and that the many paths that lead to God’s love are as diverse as all of humanity.
Let us also be prepared to offer our support and our resources to the children and the families celebrating baptisms recently, with faith formation instruction and activities. Let us set aside some resources, so that we may fulfill our promises to the newly baptized. Another path God has put before us. Another path that leads to God’s truth, God’s love.
Baptizing a child is a choice, made by loving families, to set their child on a particular path. Making promises to encourage and support that journey is a choice. Confirming those promises at a time when a young person feels ready to take on them on for themselves is a choice. Living into those promises as an adult, through a church, in covenant with God, is a choice.
Each one of these choices is yet another path. Like the paths of mercy, forgiveness, and humility, these paths of promise lead to God’s truth: love.
And God’s love is the ultimate guide for all of God’s faithful children on the journey, no matter our chronological age.
Our celebration today of Julia’s baptism is part of a sacrament we set aside as special, and rare. And the drops of water we place upon her head are just a few precious drops from an ocean of love from our Creator God.
May Julia always feel God’s presence, God’s steadfast and guiding love, her whole life long. And may she never be embarrassed or afraid to ask questions of God, or about God, or about God’s work in the world though Jesus the Christ, our Lord and Savior.
The world is a better place today, because of the promises made here today. But it is also a better place today because we have been reminded of our own baptismal and confirmation promises.
Let us go from this place with joy for Julia’s baptism, and with resolve to live out our own faith journeys, on God’s many paths, with God’s one truth, love, as our guide. Amen.
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